I’m not sure what the fan had in mind by having that moniker instead of her name, but it was ironic that that’s the phrase used. About a week ago, I decided to write this Tip of the Week about that expression I heard far too often growing up – pay attention. Or as my dad would say – PAY ATTENTION!!
I’ve used it with my daughter over the years as well; in some ways, I’ve become the parent that I used to roll my eyes at on a daily basis – but I digress.
The reason for being told to pay attention is because the parent wants you to focus on them and what they say. Oftentimes, “Pay Attention” is accompanied by “look at me.”
So why is Paying Attention so important? Because it conveys you’re listening to the other person, and it shows respect. How disrespected do you feel if the employee is “paying attention” to their phone when engaged with you?
The phrase can get the person focused. It can get them attentive to the individual who should be the most important person in the world to us at that moment – the person we’re serving.
Ask yourself – if I was PAYING FULL ATTENTION to this person, what would I do?
Would you set down materials that you’re holding? How would you listen differently? Would your body language or expressions change? How would your posture be different?
If you told yourself to “PAY ATTENTION!!” at the start of a conversation, what would you do differently?
Make the other person feel important and respected. PAY ATTN.