customer service

How Better Customer Service is Better for You - 8/18/26


Oftentimes, we have employees in training or workshops who really want to understand what’s in it for them to deliver better customer service.  How does the employee benefit from a better customer experience? Noted below are 5 different aspects of a great experience desired by the customer.  What if... The customer Read more

Manage New Customer Expectations - 8/11/26


The fan had never been to a motorsports event before, but they had been to concerts.  They had been to big conferences.  At those other events, they could park right next to the venue, many of the activities were indoors, and weather was a non-issue.  So, they were not Read more

Complement Empathy with Action - 8/4/26


A man falls into a hole, and he can’t get out.  He starts yelling for help, and a doctor walks by and looks down the hole.  The man in the hole yells to the doctor “Please help me.  I’ve fallen into this hole!”  And the doctor takes out a Read more

My 8-Minute Visit at the DMV- 7/28/26


I needed to get a Real ID, which in North Carolina facilitates airline travel and other identity verifications.  My wife suggested I go to one particular DMV that was a LONG way away from home, but where she had experienced great customer service.  I was lucky to find an Read more

When They Might Walk Out the Door…Permanently- 7/21/26


Have you ever had one of those conversations with the customer where they literally tell you they’re about to stop doing business with your company?  This is it.  They may bring up a competitor or found another way to get their need met, or they are just leaving. When we Read more

Transparency in Customer Service- 7/14/26


We’ve worked with a lot of clients in the local government sector, and many of these clients have Customer Service Standards and/or corporate values that include Transparency. Think about an old-fashioned transparency sheet, that malleable see-through page you put on an overhead projector.  You can see everything on one side Read more

See the Customer’s Journey from Their Perspective- 7/7/26


That customer is face-to-face with you right now, and you are fielding their questions or delivering your service to them.  And oftentimes and understandably, we are so immersed in the moment that we don’t think about what came before or think enough about what comes next. But in the life Read more

Gaining the Benefits of the Greeter- 6/30/26


Most likely, we’ve all entered some establishment – a retail store, restaurant, or service center - when there is a greeter at the door.  The most famous greeter position is probably the Walmart greeter.  I often thought that my father-in-law would have been a fantastic Walmart greeter, because he Read more

Seamlessness - Why the Customer Thanked You - 6/23/26


This doesn’t happen enough nowadays, but the employee received a long thank you e-mail from the customer.  A financial services account manager had taken care of the client during a period of time that was stressful for the customer. Life was unexpectedly changing quickly, and personal emotions, additional financial responsibilities, Read more

When to Avoid the Escalation - 6/16/26


The customer calls with a complaint, and the easy thing to do is to escalate it to your supervisor. That may also be the right thing to do, but how do you know when to avoid the escalation? Why You Would Escalate The first thing to consider is why you would Read more

It Helps to Downshift – 3/11/25

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One of the first tips I heard when I was learning how to drive related to what to do when the brakes fail – downshift.  Shifting into a lower gear can slow down a moving vehicle.  I would explain this in technical terms to you, but considering I’m not technical (especially when it comes to automotive engineering), let’s just say that downshifting leverages the engine RPMs to essentially slow down the vehicle.

I noticed early on in my career that when situations got anxious or were intense, I tended to downshift.  Not that I would rev my engines, but rather I would try to figure out how to slow myself.  It seemed that in difficult situations, tough conversations, unexpected deadlines or changes in priorities, I handled things better if I allowed myself to slow down physically and mentally, and tried to understand the situation a little bit before making decisions or taking action.  The situation wouldn’t come at me too rapidly, because I wasn’t running into the situation so rapidly.

On a separate but related note, I’m somebody who likes to do things exceptionally quickly, and early on that was a plus.  I was highly productive…until mistakes happened.  Then I became highly unproductive.  I learned that doing things exceptionally quickly has risks, particularly if there’s not a quality check, there’s not a pause to think through decisions and review documents before pressing “Send” or taking action.  I had to learn to slow down at the beginning to think through the process.  I had to learn to slow down at the end to ensure everything was clean before I put something out there for others to review and evaluate.

Resolving issues quickly is imperative to good customer service.  But jumping in too quickly and not resolving an issue because one doesn’t fully understand the root cause of the problem – that is not good customer service.

Working quickly is exceptionally important.  But having to do rework on the backend because of something that wasn’t done right on the front end can create frustration, delays, and ultimately, low productivity.

When you’re trying to get through your To Do list, or you’re trying to address a difficult customer situation, downshift – slow your body and your mind before you jump in.

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Patience is… – 3/4/25

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Patience is a…pain in the neck.  Why is it so hard to be patient?  Those of us who work in customer service know that we constantly have to show patience with our customers.  We’re ready to move to the next step or the solution because we’ve heard this issue 100 times, but the customer is still telling their story, and they waited 15 minutes on the phone to get to us, so they don’t exactly want to get rushed through their opening statement.

We’re ready to end the meeting, but our boss decides to wax eloquent about something she did in college that deals with fishing or football or physics, and we’re supposed to somehow relate this to our day-to-day job.  So, we have to be patient.

Our new co-worker asks 1,000 questions, and we have 1,000 answers, but we don’t have 1,000 hours.  We have to be patient.

Patience Quotes

Cato said that “Patience is the greatest of all virtues.”

Kierkegaard said “Patience is necessary, and one cannot reap immediately where one has sown.”

There’s an old saying that “Patience doesn’t always help, but impatience never does.”

And here’s my favorite – from Lec.  I have no idea who he/she is, but it’s a good quote: “You have to have a lot of patience to learn patience.”

Patience Tests

For many of us, the skills that we need to learn most are the skills that are most tested.  And when it comes to personal interactions with people less knowledgeable on a topic than we are in customer service, people who are a little bit more anxious or upset, people who don’t quite appreciate all the different plates we have spinning at any given point in time – those types of conversations require extra patience.

Patience Positives

So when you show patience, realize you are doing something virtuous.  Realize that it might not reap you any immediate benefits, but it will help down the road.  Realize that showing impatience and interrupting others rarely leads to the right tone and a positive outcome.  And realize that you’re likely showing a lot of patience when you’re put in positions where you’re having to learn patience.

 Patience is…a virtue in customer service.

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Everybody Doesn’t – 2/25/25

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Joey received the compliment, but he was confused.  Paula, his boss, and Joey had their monthly one-on-one meeting, and Paula noted that, although he was new, Joey was already doing a great job!  While there were learning curves on some of the organizational policies and the technology that he was using in working with his customers, his customer service skills were excellent.

Joey appreciated the positive feedback, but he was struggling to figure out what he did that was so special.  He’s not the most outgoing person in the world, not the most gregarious or chatty or social individual.  So, he asked for some specifics from Paula.

She talked about how he’s always patient with the callers on the phone.  He always responds to the emails.  If there was a next step, he always follows up with the customer later on to make sure they were satisfied.  He always touches base with a co-worker when he handed something off just to make sure the co-worker understood things and was able to follow through.  Joey always completed his projects on time, and when he anticipated a delay, he gave his team members a heads up well in advance.

Joey thanked Paula, but then he asked: I’m not sure what is so special about that. Doesn’t everybody do those things?

Paula paused, and then she responded:  Unfortunately, no.  At least not with your consistency.  You are always being patient, always responsive, always following up, always communicating with your co-workers, always managing expectations.  So, no, everybody doesn’t do those things.  At least they don’t do them all the time.

In 2025, “Delighting” the customers or “Delivering a WOW Experience” is great, but you can be special by executing those core customer service actions consistently…by doing them ALL the time.

Become better by becoming even more consistent.

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