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Don’t Harp on the Customer’s Mistake - 6/24/25


Seth’s daughter, Sarah, had missed some swim classes, and Seth remembered that the aquatics center had several make-up classes available late in the summer.  So Seth pulled up the class schedule on his phone, found one that worked on his and Sarah’s schedules, and planned to attend a session Read more

Create Customers for Life - 6/17/25


Veronica has gone to the same automotive service shop for at least 20 years.  She bought a new car about a year ago, and this is the third car she’s brought to the shop instead of taking her car to the dealer where she bought it.  She’s had three Read more

Don’t Turn the Customer into the QA Department - 6/10/25


Roberta received a form with information filled in by the company after her conversation with the account rep.  Roberta just needed to review the information, fill in some of the blanks, sign it, and resend it in order to set up a new account. She noticed that the effective date Read more

Imitate to Improve - 6/3/25


Oscar Wilde said that “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.”  Now this doesn’t mean that plagiarism is the sincerest form of flattery.  Nor does it mean that great impersonators such as Rich Little, Dana Carvey, or Frank Caliendo are always offering flattering portrayals of those that they imitate. Wilde’s Read more

How the Customer Perceives a Truth as a Lie - 5/27/25


You’re the customer, you’re asking about an unused item that you’re returning, and you hear the employee say: “The refund process takes 7-10 days.”  You’re thinking: “Great!  I can get the refund check as early as a week from today!”  The reality is that the company means that they’ll Read more

Tell Customers What’s Next - 5/20/25


In most businesses that have been around for a while, how a process was originally designed is not how it currently operates.  Sometimes this change is referred to as “practical drift,” where the actual process moves further and further away from the documented steps over time.  Maybe the changes Read more

Questions to Guide You to Empathy - 5/13/25


“If I was him, I would do ABC…” If you’ve ever heard somebody say this - whether it’s a friend or acquaintance, whether it’s some TV reporter or podcaster - you may get as frustrated or as annoyed as I do. I get annoyed because we are not that other person. Read more

Negate the Nervousness - 5/6/25


The customer needed a loan, so he walked into the bank, but he was a little nervous.  He knew that launching his business would be easier if he had some working capital, but that’s about all he knew.  He was anxious because he didn’t know what to expect in Read more

Don’t Rush to Resolve Quickly - 4/29/25


The customer is angry, so you use the CSS LEAD technique as designed.  You, listen, empathize, accept responsibility, and deliver on a remedy.  But it doesn’t work.  The customer is still upset, and maybe even a little more frustrated than when you started…why?! If the use of this technique fails, Read more

Energy v. Apathy - 4/22/25


I asked a couple friends who are much more scientifically-oriented the question: What is energy?  I didn’t mean E=MC2.  I meant physiologically, what is energy? They described a lot of things that sounded really good, yet far too advanced for my non-medical mind. Part of the reason why energy is of Read more

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Get Your Customers to Brag, Not Bolt – 4/8/25

Posted on April 8, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

Here are two customer retention concepts that we discuss with some sports clients: BIRG and CORF.  BIRG is Basking In Reflected Glory.  CORF is Cutting Off Reflected Failure.

You want BIRG.  You want the customers feeling so good about your organization that they want to be a part of your organization, they want to let others know they’re a customer of your business.

You don’t want CORF.  This is where it’s the “in thing” to talk negatively about an organization.  Customers go out of their way to say they’re not affiliated with or not a customer of an organization.

So, how could any one of us as an individual help to create BIRG – that positivity about our organization in the customer’s mind?  Obviously, every encounter, every communication, every Moment of Truth is an opportunity to create BIRG.  But there are also opportunities to create these positive feelings from your customers in what you say about your company.

Talk positively about what the company has now: You could describe the great website that has all of this excellent information or enables the customer to get their needs met on their own.

Talk positively about the company’s future: You could use an important communication vehicle from our sports clients – communicating the “Direction of the Team.”  This is where you talk about the company’s vision.  You could mention the expansion plans, the community initiatives they have underway, renovations that will take place, or new products and services on the horizon.

Talk about the customer’s role in the company’s success: State “When you, Mr. Customer, do ABC like you did, that really helps us out.  We are here to serve our customers, so thanks for the opportunity to do so.  Our company would not be nearly as successful if it wasn’t for great clients such as yourself.”

Talk about your feelings working for the company: Mention that you’ve worked there for 10 years because it’s a company with good values.  You enjoy working there, and it’s amazing how the company gives you the training and tools you need to do a good job. You could mention how it’s great to work for a company who listens to your ideas and is always trying to get better.

If we want our customers feeling good about our companies, think about what you can do to talk positively about your company’s present, its plans for the future, the customer’s role in its success, and what you like best about working there.

Build up the BIRG.

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Narrow Your Focus to Seek Excellence – 4/1/25

Posted on April 1, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

You’ve probably heard companies use phrases such as: “We want to go from being good to great.”  Maybe they’ve said: “We strive for perfection, and although we’ll never reach perfection, maybe we can achieve excellence along the way.”

These organizations find some kind of a catch phrase or slogan, but the crux of what they’re trying to do is to get better.  They’re trying to improve.

When we used to conduct assessments for companies 15-20 years ago, we would identify a laundry list of things they needed to improve.  We’d note the 60, 80, 100 different recommendations.  Some were very tactical in nature, while some needed to be addressed over a period of several months or a year.  Others were very strategic in nature.

What we found was that the more we categorized, organized, and consolidated those recommendations, the less daunting the list appeared to the client, the more manageable the list was to address.

Now, the maximum number of top priority recommendations we typically provide is 20, and more likely we’ll have 5-10 key focus areas.  So, if you want to get better, if you want to become great, if you want to achieve excellence – particularly as an individual – identify some broad but important areas of focus.  Here are 3 quick examples:

Could You Communicate Better?  This could involve improving your communication skills, your business writing effectiveness, being more intentional about the words you use or more cognizant of your body language and tone of voice.

Could You Become a Better Planner?  You could identify what needs to be done by when, what your priorities may be.  Then, lay out your work over a period of days or weeks or – for big projects – over months in order to ensure you’re not having to scramble at the end of a project to meet the deadline.

Could You Better Prepare Your Customers?  Do you send information to the customer expecting an immediate review or quick turnaround?  Instead, lay out what the process is going to look like for the customer, what you expect of them, what they can expect of you, when those activities will happen.  Lay it out so the customer’s not put in a position of having to be ultra responsive to you without any forewarning.

Identify a few broad but important areas where you can be better.  Then use them as an ongoing focal point to continuously improve, to seek excellence.

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Listen with Your Eyes – 1/28/25

Posted on January 28, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

Out of the corner of his eye, Patrick saw the customer enter the lobby.  The customer was carrying a large shoulder bag with several papers in her hand.  The customer was shuffling the papers and looking down; then she stopped, looked up, and saw the staff navigator sitting at the desk.

The customer quickly walked to the navigator, said something, got a response from the navigator, and then looked around the lobby.  The eyes of the customer stopped when she saw the sign above Patrick’s area.  She turned and smiled at the navigator and nodded, and then the customer briskly walked toward Patrick.

How the Customer Waited

She saw a little sign-in kiosk right in front of Patrick’s area, signed in, got a number, and sat down.  Patrick received notification that she was #37, and he was working with customer #35.  Occasionally, Patrick glanced at customer #37; she never took out a phone.  She was looking at the papers fervently, and she was using a pencil to write and erase certain things.

When a particular song came on in the lobby, Patrick noticed that she started tapping her feet, and she paused her review of the papers.  After a couple seconds, she went back to her papers and kept the foot tapping.

In the 8 minutes that the customer was in the lobby before Patrick called for customer #37, Patrick had noticed the customer and her mannerisms for about 30 seconds total.  But a lot of things were clear to him. They were clear to him because he was listening to her gestures, expressions and body language, even though he couldn’t hear a word she was saying.

What Patrick Learned

Patrick knew that this was someone who had never been to the office before.  She was somebody who didn’t have her whole game plan together, and she was formulating her questions and how to express them as she waited.  She was not tech savvy, or at least not technology-focused.  Although she seemed a little nervous and in a rush, a little frazzled as well, she seemed like a pleasant person.  She appeared to be somebody who liked music and knew how to relax herself in the moment.

Patrick knew that she had settled herself down and had started to get her thoughts together, but she would likely have questions and follow-up questions to address whatever her issue or need was at that time.  Patrick had an impression of her without ever having spoken to her.

How This Helps Us

When we’re face-to-face with others, we have the same opportunity that Patrick had – to observe and try to understand others even beyond what they say, even if we haven’t even spoken to them.  Sometimes these observations and the resulting conclusions are accurate.  Sometimes…not so much.  But with face-to-face conversations, words only tell part of the story.

By watching the body language, the gestures, the movements, it helps you to read the other person and glean a little bit more about what’s going on inside that individual.

And if you get a chance to make these observations even before you speak to the other person, you can better prepare for the encounter.

Listen with your eyes.

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