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When They Want the Supervisor - 1/27/26


Maybe you did your best with the customer, or maybe the customer didn’t even give you a chance.  They want to talk to your supervisor.  They see you, notice your title does not have “supervisor” or “manager” or “director” or “President and CEO” in it, so they want to Read more

Identify Your Point of Empathy - 1/20/26


I was watching a webinar recently on empathy.  The speaker mentioned that empathy - to a large extent - is something that you are born with.  It’s something that’s very difficult to learn.  And while I agree that some people are predisposed to being empathetic and understanding of others Read more

Pressure is a Privilege, but... - 1/13/26


When athletes are asked about the pressure of a playoff match or a late-game situation, many times they will say that “pressure is a privilege.”  In other words, usually pressure exists because you’re in a match that matters most.  It exists because you are a player put in a Read more

While I’ve Got You on the Phone… - 1/6/26


I’m a big planner.  Whether it’s strategic planning or planning out the year or planning my week first thing on a Monday morning, I like to plan.  I do this because it gets all of my action items documented and ensures that I have some understanding of what I Read more

Pass the Quick Impression Test - 12/30/25


Some studies have shown that people create an impression of you in less than a second when they first meet you face-to-face.  Other studies have shown that that initial impression can take up to 7 seconds.  Regardless, first impressions are quick.  First impressions are not always the lasting impression, Read more

2025 Holiday Poem - 12/23/25


We hear the word change And that change can be good, But we like things to stay same, And sometimes they should.   The weather can be wet And then dry as a bone. We know things will change, Even if all left alone.   Our customers change. Our co-workers do, too. It seems like our resources Are often too few.   The technology Read more

Make the Long Wait Feel Shorter - 12/16/25


When Greg entered the Tax Office, he was thinking only about two things: (1) How he was going to get the tax value on his home reduced, and (2) Whether the wait would be 1 hour or 2.  He checked in with the navigator who asked a few questions, Read more

When Kindness Means More in Customer Service - 12/9/25


Since a large part of the work we do at CSS includes customer research, we have seen tens of thousands of comments over the years about staff, and it is great to hear the positives that customers, fans, and account holders say about our clients’ team members. One word that Read more

Don’t Create the Second Complaint - 12/2/25


Maria was upset.  Rightfully so.  The product delivery was delayed, she couldn’t get anybody on the phone, and nobody would reply to her e-mails.  So, she went down to the store, and she found a customer service representative. After the initial greeting, the employee listened to Maria’s complaint.  While Maria Read more

Refresh on the Reasons to Appreciate the Customer - 11/25/25


This is a great time of year to give thanks, not just because it’s Thanksgiving week in the United States, but also because – with 2025 coming to a close - it gives us the opportunity to do some reflecting on the recent past. The idea of reflecting on reasons Read more

Empathy Examples for Everyday Situations – 12/10/24

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I’ve often said that empathy is the single most important characteristic of people who are great at customer service.  If empathy is essentially “to understand the other person,” it helps so much to have that ability in order to specifically help someone.  To talk to what’s unique about them.  To convey your knowledge of their situation or your ability to comprehend the emotions they must be feeling.

But how do you phrase your empathy to the customer in particular situations?  Here are three quick examples for you to consider and put into practice:

Acknowledging Inconvenience During a Refund Process:  A customer requests a refund and expresses annoyance about the delay in processing. The employee could say:  “I understand how inconvenient this delay must be for you. Your time is valuable, and I’ll prioritize making this process as smooth as possible moving forward.”

Understanding Frustration with a Delayed Order:  A customer calls upset about a late order.  In addition to providing the tracking information, the employee could respond:  “I can understand how frustrating it must be to wait for something you were expecting on time.  Let me look into this right away and see how we can resolve it for you.”

Calming a Customer Facing Technical Issues:  A customer is struggling to navigate an online portal and expresses irritation. The employee could say:  “I know how stressful it can be when technology doesn’t work the way we expect.  I’m here to guide you through this step-by-step so we can get it sorted out together.”

These examples show how empathy can involve acknowledging, understanding, and calming someone.  And every example has empathy, followed by a transition to the next step.

To be empathetic with the customer and also convey that understanding of them and their situation, add these everyday examples to your empathy toolkit.

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Tell Them Why You’re Giving Thanks – 12/3/24

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Thank you! Merci! Danke! Doumo! Gracias!

It seems like every language has a translation of Thank You.  Even though I only fluently speak English and speak Spanish, un poco, I – and probably most of you – have heard some or all of the translations of “Thank You” noted above.  It’s a universal phrase throughout the world.

The phrase shows that we acknowledge what the other person did or didn’t do; it conveys appreciation for an individual, their attitude, their action.  It is something that is simple, but it typically leaves a positive impression and feeling with the other person.

And in the world of customer service, there are also many ways to say Thank You.  Customers appreciate the thanks.  Co-workers appreciate a Thank You, as well.  And a Thank You is especially appreciated when it’s coupled with sharing the reason for the thanks.

A Quick Story of Thanks

So, a thank you can be a wonderful thing; it can be a pivot point in someone’s day.  It can be something that provides mutual benefit.  Here’s a quick story…

I was recently going to an event downtown, and traffic was moving at a snail’s pace.  It seemed like the more drivers waited, the more impatient they got.  When I pulled into the parking deck and saw the attendant, I rolled down my window, greeted him, and asked how he’s doing.  He replied dryly:  It’s been a day.

He started to pull two tickets to give me that I would need to get out of the deck later that day.  I have parked in this location multiple times, and when you pay upon entry, they give you 2 tickets.  To exit, you scan the pink one first and the yellow one second.

So, as he was pulling tickets, I said with a smile:  Pink, then yellow, right?!

He replied with a smile:  You got it!

I paid the fee, and he said: Thanks! I appreciate your smile, especially today.

I replied:  I appreciate yours, too!

His was a thanks of appreciation, but it wasn’t just for the parking fee.  He specified that he appreciated the person.  He appreciated the smile, especially after probably dealing with 100 cars before me laden with frowns and grumpy customers.

When you give the routine Thank You, make it a little more meaningful, a little more special.

Tell them what you thank them for, and maybe you’ll start feeling a little better yourself.

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Acting on the Guiding Principles for Great Customer Service – 11/19/24

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In last week’s tip, we shared 5 Guiding Principles for Great Customer Service.  This week, let’s address what “taking action” looks like on those key principles.  If last week was about what to do and WHY, this week is about the HOW.

Engage with Interest: To engage with interest, proactively start the conversation.  Take that monkey off the customer’s back to initiate the engagement.  Immediately be self-aware of your body language, like you’re looking in a mirror, and you’re checking yourself if you’re putting off any negative vibes.  Think about your tone of voice, ensuring that it has a bit of energy, has a positive flow.

Seek to Understand their Uniqueness: Be inquisitive, ask questions, understand them and their situation more specifically.  Clarify your understanding of anything that’s unclear, and make a confirming statement back to ensure you are stating your understanding of what they’ve just shared.

Figure Out How to Help: Identify solutions, identify alternatives when what they suggest just cannot happen, for whatever reason.  The more uniquely you understand their situation, the more you can put yourself in the position of being the solution provider.  Figure out how to help.

Take Action: Do what was promised, or if your co-worker needed to take the next step, make sure they did as was asked in a timely manner.

Convey that You Followed Through: Tell the customer what you did, or share what action was taken by your co-worker on behalf of the customer.  If appropriate and available, let the customer know the outcome.  If you’re making all these efforts to support the customer, ensure that they know that you followed through.

Turn Guiding Principles into a Great Experience.  Put principles into action.

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