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It’s Not “You,” It’s “I” - 9/8/26


During a business writing course that I took years ago, the instructor had us write an e-mail.  I can’t recall if it was written to a co-worker or customer, but after writing this e-mail, she had us count every “I” and “You.”  We talked about how we need to Read more

It Shouldn’t Make a Difference, But… - 9/1/26


We have this conversation with lots of our sports clients, but the principles apply across all different industries.  Too many service representatives view a conversation with a customer as a transaction.  Just get him off the phone as quickly as possible.  The customer is Joe Public, not Joseph Pendergrass.  Read more

Use What the Customer Gives You - 8/25/26


Scenario #1: The customer sent an e-mail to the general inbox at the company.  The message noted that the customer needed to get a family member added to their account, but they couldn’t tell from the website how to do so. The next morning an employee opened up the e-mail, Read more

How Better Customer Service is Better for You - 8/18/26


Oftentimes, we have employees in training or workshops who really want to understand what’s in it for them to deliver better customer service.  How does the employee benefit from a better customer experience? Noted below are 5 different aspects of a great experience desired by the customer.  What if... The customer Read more

Manage New Customer Expectations - 8/11/26


The fan had never been to a motorsports event before, but they had been to concerts.  They had been to big conferences.  At those other events, they could park right next to the venue, many of the activities were indoors, and weather was a non-issue.  So, they were not Read more

Complement Empathy with Action - 8/4/26


A man falls into a hole, and he can’t get out.  He starts yelling for help, and a doctor walks by and looks down the hole.  The man in the hole yells to the doctor “Please help me.  I’ve fallen into this hole!”  And the doctor takes out a Read more

My 8-Minute Visit at the DMV- 7/28/26


I needed to get a Real ID, which in North Carolina facilitates airline travel and other identity verifications.  My wife suggested I go to one particular DMV that was a LONG way away from home, but where she had experienced great customer service.  I was lucky to find an Read more

When They Might Walk Out the Door…Permanently- 7/21/26


Have you ever had one of those conversations with the customer where they literally tell you they’re about to stop doing business with your company?  This is it.  They may bring up a competitor or found another way to get their need met, or they are just leaving. When we Read more

Transparency in Customer Service- 7/14/26


We’ve worked with a lot of clients in the local government sector, and many of these clients have Customer Service Standards and/or corporate values that include Transparency. Think about an old-fashioned transparency sheet, that malleable see-through page you put on an overhead projector.  You can see everything on one side Read more

See the Customer’s Journey from Their Perspective- 7/7/26


That customer is face-to-face with you right now, and you are fielding their questions or delivering your service to them.  And oftentimes and understandably, we are so immersed in the moment that we don’t think about what came before or think enough about what comes next. But in the life Read more

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It Shouldn’t Make a Difference, But… – 9/1/26

Posted on September 1, 2026 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

We have this conversation with lots of our sports clients, but the principles apply across all different industries.  Too many service representatives view a conversation with a customer as a transaction.  Just get him off the phone as quickly as possible.  The customer is Joe Public, not Joseph Pendergrass.  The customer is generic, not unique individually.  This is a transaction, not anything more.

In sports, we look at that customer – that account holder whose ticket for an individual basketball game might cost $100.  But the average account has 2.5 tickets.  There are 41 home games in the season, and the average account lasts for 5.3 years.  So, we can view that conversation as a generic customer or a $100 ticket, or we could realize that the lifetime value of the relationship with the person I’m speaking with is $54,325.

We’re working in the water utility call center, and somebody is calling in to ask how to use our ePortal, or they’re complaining about a high bill.  We noticed that their average bill is $75.  We could view this person as somebody who is asking a question we’ve gotten 100 times, we’re just trying to give them the standard response.  Or we can realize that the average homeowner will end up living in our community for close to 30 years.  Therefore, in today’s dollars, that $75 monthly bill equates to an account worth $27,000.

It shouldn’t matter whether this is a $100 ticket or a $54,000 account.  It shouldn’t matter whether this is a $75 invoice or a $27,000 account.  But for many of us, it does matter.

For many of us in customer service, it affects our mindset.  If we go into every interaction just viewing this as a transaction or somebody asking me a question or presenting me with an issue, it can feel routine, not interesting or unique, and sometimes that indifference in our mind can come across as indifference in our tone of voice and interaction with that customer.

So, it’s sometimes beneficial to get that phone call from the season ticket holder, and realize this is somebody who has $54,000 in value in ticket purchases alone.  It’s beneficial to think about this water utility customer as somebody who is contributing $27,000 to the municipality.

It shouldn’t matter, but sometimes it helps to get us in the right mindset when we see the true lifetime value of the customers we serve.

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Familying with Customers – 10/28/25

Posted on October 28, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

In our transactional society, it’s hard to think about customers in the long-term.  But if we want to be as successful as we can as an individual or as a business, we need to view customers through a relationship lens. What do we need to know about them to keep them and grow our business with them?  What if we truly viewed customers…as family?

Believe it or not, there is a word (depending on what dictionary you check) called Familying.  It is defined as:  Supporting, providing emotional or practical help to family members.

If we consider customers in a long-term relationship-oriented manner, we could define our role in a customer family as being those supporting, providing emotional or practical help to customers.

To be most effective in helping them long-term, we have to get to know them.  Let’s break down FAMILYING in terms of what we need to know to build relationships with customers:

F is for Fiscally understanding our customers.  They are customers of our business because they are spending money or resources with us.  The better we can understand their economic situation, the parameters within which they can spend money on the types of products and services we have to offer, the better we can tailor our offerings to meet their needs.

A is for understanding the customer’s Attitude and their emotions.  Some customers in the moment or in general are very emotional, and we have to be cognizant of that and address the emotions as much as the topic at-hand.  Others are less emotional, and we can deal more with them on the facts and the figures.  The better we can understand the emotions, the better we can understand how to engage them effectively.

M is for understanding their Motivators.  Why are they with us as a customer, and why could they leave?  The more we understand the reasons behind their decisions, the better chance we have of affecting their decisions to stay or to go, to spread positive or negative word-of-mouth.

The ILY is embedded in understanding our customer’s fiscally, attitudinally, and motivationally.

The ING in FAMILYING with customers is the ING I’ve brought up a few times before in these tips. The better we understand their Issues, Needs, and Goals, the better we can help them resolve their Issues, address their Needs, and support them in achieving their Goals.

To develop a long-term relationship with customers, get to know them Fiscally, Attitudinally, Motivationally, and what are their Issues, Needs, and Goals.  Start with a little FAMILYING.

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Highlight the Hidden Value – 7/1/25

Posted on July 1, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

Marketing campaigns often highlight a particular product and ALL the features and extras that the customer will receive…

“For 3 low, low payments of only $39.99, you not only get these world-renowned chef knives, but you can also get this free laser-etched spatula!  AND THAT’S NOT ALL!  We will also provide free shipping!  AND THAT’S NOT ALL!  You also get this 21st century space age colander.  That’s right!  AND THAT’S NOT ALL!  If you call in the next 90 minutes, we’ll send you a 3-in-1 corkscrew – that also serves as a laser pointer and a flip chart marker!”

That type of marketing works in some cases.  It provides an in-your-face series of incremental reasons to make a purchase.

But what about those behind-the-scenes series of incremental reasons for the customer to keep their business with your company?

Janine had a new HVAC tech come out to her home to do the quarterly maintenance, and she was impressed with how much time he spent working on the equipment.  She had no idea what he was doing, since he was in the crawl space or working at the outdoor unit all the time, but she was really pleased with the time he took!

Kareem was calling about a charge on his credit card statement that didn’t look familiar.  Not only was the price a number that didn’t ring a bell, but the merchant name didn’t seem like a company he had heard of either.  The customer service representative looked on her system, apparently investigated a lot of details about the transaction, and came back to Kareem with a description of the type of purchase, another name for the merchant business, and a course of action for Kareem to take.  Kareem had no idea how the CSR came up with all this information, but he was very pleased!

These are just two real-life examples of how the customer had a great experience.  They had no idea specifically what the employee was doing on their behalf, but the time investment from the employee and the outcome of the work performed made a huge impact on the customer.  Their impression was that they got great customer service.

It wasn’t in your face marketing that made them so pleased, engendered trust, and built loyalty.  It was the effort on behalf of the customer, the time spent, and the clear next step.

Sometimes the actions the customer never sees are the ones that build value the most.

Understand your hidden value and how much repeat customers appreciate it.

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