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When to Avoid the Escalation - 6/16/26


The customer calls with a complaint, and the easy thing to do is to escalate it to your supervisor. That may also be the right thing to do, but how do you know when to avoid the escalation? Why You Would Escalate The first thing to consider is why you would Read more

Let’s be Clear on Clarity - 6/9/26


When trying to manage expectations, it’s vital to be clear with the customer.  But what specifically does it mean to be “clear?” Clarity is in the eyes and ears of the beholder, so what may be clear to one customer may be unclear to another.  However, there are some basic Read more

Allow Yourself to Solve a Couple Puzzles Every Day - 6/2/26


Frank had never been a dog owner before, and when he first got Bosco at the shelter, Frank didn't really know what he was doing.  He would try to be a good parent - feed the dog, play with it, take it on walks - but he was doing Read more

Improve with a Purpose - 5/26/26


If you’re reading these customer service tips, you likely want to get better.  You want an idea, a technique, a reinforcement, or a question that helps you improve. But why improve? At some point you may waver on the commitment to improve, because it can take effort, introspection, time, and change.  Read more

Reciprocate the Thanks - 5/19/26


Jasmine had a great experience with the company, and the company sent her a link to provide an online evaluation following the visit.  So, she clicked the link, gave a rating, and made a comment about her experience. The company monitored their online reviews, saw the positive response, and replied Read more

Don’t Skip the Recap - 5/12/26


The playoff hockey game goes on for almost 3 hours.  There’s non-stop action, with plenty of penalties and takeaways and hits against the boards…and a few goals, as well. You didn’t get to watch the whole game because you had other plans, but you wanted to know what happened.  So, Read more

Finalize the Solution with the 6 Step Checklist - 5/5/26


In last week’s Tip, we showed why and how to Use the 6 Step Checklist before Resolving the Issue.  We noted the importance of taking 15 seconds to mentally walk through the Who, What, When, Where, Why, and How to feel confident that you know what’s needed to fix Read more

Use the 6 Step Checklist before Resolving the Issue - 4/28/26


We talk about trying to resolve the issue right the first time, sharing the technique on how to manage the conversation to get clarity on the real issue, need, or goal, and confirming your understanding before moving forward. But what are you trying to clarify?  What are you trying to Read more

Use the Customer’s Words - 4/21/26


The customer is describing a problem on what they call their “computer.” They mentioned that the “screen” doesn’t “move from one page to the other.” They say that the “website’s name is typed at the top,” and it says sample.com with a “line, and then it says ‘home’ after Read more

Affirming the Customer with Empathy - 4/14/26


We’ve spoken and written about empathy for the 20+ years of these customer service tips, noting empathy as the most important quality any individual can have if they want to be great at customer service.  We’ve shared that - in order to serve our customers most effectively – it’s Read more

Prep Enough to Personalize – 4/15/25

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Everybody loves Howie.  He is an account rep for the local air conditioning and heating company.  When I say Everybody loves Howie, I’m definitely talking about the customers.  His co-workers love him too, but customers are especially fond of him.  They seem to really enjoy their conversations with him, and they always feel heard and appreciated.

Howie believes in doing two things well: Preparation and Personalization.  Before the call or video chat, before that e-mail he sends, he simply writes down the goal for that correspondence.  Sometimes it’s to be clear. Sometimes it’s to be understanding and sometimes to encourage the customer.

Next, Howie actually reads all those notes on the system that the techs or the customer service reps put in relating to this customer.  He tries to understand a little bit about where they’ve been recently and where they’re at today.  He tries to get a sense of how happy they have been with the company’s service.  And he tries to get a sense of the customer themselves.  He refreshes on those little stories, those anecdotes that are unique about the customer, the information on how long they’ve been a customer or what system they have in their home.

In his preparation, he uses the knowledge that somebody took the time to put into the system.

Then he makes the call, or he starts the chat, or he creates the e-mail.  Though he understands customer service techniques, and he knows whatever scripts or guidelines he’s been given, he is focused on personalizing the conversation.  He utilizes the customer’s name, references some of the stories, notes the information that his co-workers have put in the system, and he weaves all of that information into the conversation.

Nobody feels like a number when they talk to Howie because he prepped enough to personalize.

Make preparation and personalization your calling card.

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Delight Your Customers – 10/22/24

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Buddy the Bug Man was different.  His company was new, and the only reason why Janet tried him out was that the service she had used for years just wasn’t working.  Whether it was mosquitoes in the yard, ants in the kitchen, or cockroaches flying through on their way to summer vacation, it seemed like bugs were everywhere.

When Janet first met Buddy, he had come to the house to provide a free assessment.  He wasn’t offering discounts to get new customers, but he was offering a free review of needs.  Buddy spent 45 minutes walking in and around the house, hunching down in the crawl space, and looking up at the trees.

Identifying the Need

At the end of the review, he sat down with Janet, and he gave his assessment of her issues and needs.  They discussed her goals, and then he emailed her a document the next day.  The visit and the follow-up document were personalized.  The document included a summary assessment of her home, not just a quote with a 1-liner describing the treatment and the cost.  It explained to her – often in her words – what were the biggest issues, needs, and goals for her home.  Buddy offered a couple different pricing options and a recommended cadence of inspections and treatment.

Getting Rid of the Bugs

When the treatment began, most things seemed to get better immediately, but they weren’t perfect.  Buddy reached out to Janet to get her input on how things were going, and she noted the mosquito problem was just about as bad as ever.  The next day, Buddy sent one of his men to the house to augment the treatment they had already done.  The mosquito situation got better within 48 hours.

Penning a Thank You Note

Six months into the service program, Janet opened her mailbox, and there was a small gift from Buddy.  It was simply a nice pen.  No logo on it.  Instead, there was just a handwritten note from Buddy thanking Janet for her business and hoping she enjoyed the pen.

Buddy was new to the bug business, but apparently he wasn’t new to understanding people.  He wasn’t new to understanding how to build a relationship.  He did 3 things exceptionally well to delight his customers: The Personalized Experience, the Exceptional and Responsive Support, and the Unexpected Positive Surprise.

To delight your customers, learn a little from Buddy the Bug Man.

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A Story of Willie and Aubrey – 2/8/22

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The gift shop was a great experience!  Aubrey had bought items online from the shop for years, but she had never stepped foot in the store itself.  However, when travel plans took her on a trip to new surroundings, she took time out of her day to go to the shop.  Aubrey was greeted immediately by Willie, the shop owner.  Her first words were “Hi, I’m Aubrey Matthews.”  That’s all she had to say.

Willie was immediately excited, as he recognized the name and instantly knew that this was a long-distance customer.  They had never met, but Willie was so excited to meet Aubrey face-to-face and to talk.  They chatted and walked around the store together.  Though Willie had never met Aubrey and never heard her voice, he instantly knew who she was – a treasured customer.

Willie cared enough to know Aubrey’s name, her preferences, her “story.”  It made a huge impression on Aubrey, and Aubrey bought several items that day as well.

Now, what’s the lesson?

When you interact with a customer, don’t just think about their order or issue – think about THEM.  Who is the person you’re speaking with – what’s their story?

When you complete a call or transaction, document some of the personal side of the customer (Were they rushed, emotional, have some upcoming event?  What did you learn about them personally?).

When you then initiate a contact with a customer, don’t just consider the issue or service you’re going to discuss, consider the characteristics of the customer you’ll be talking with, as well.  Don’t view it as “Company” and “Prospect.”  View it as Willie and Aubrey.

Engage the customer as a unique individual.

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