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How the Customer Perceives a Truth as a Lie - 5/27/25


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Tell Customers What’s Next - 5/20/25


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Questions to Guide You to Empathy - 5/13/25


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Negate the Nervousness - 5/6/25


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Don’t Rush to Resolve Quickly - 4/29/25


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Energy v. Apathy - 4/22/25


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Patience is… – 3/4/25

Posted on March 4, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

Patience is a…pain in the neck.  Why is it so hard to be patient?  Those of us who work in customer service know that we constantly have to show patience with our customers.  We’re ready to move to the next step or the solution because we’ve heard this issue 100 times, but the customer is still telling their story, and they waited 15 minutes on the phone to get to us, so they don’t exactly want to get rushed through their opening statement.

We’re ready to end the meeting, but our boss decides to wax eloquent about something she did in college that deals with fishing or football or physics, and we’re supposed to somehow relate this to our day-to-day job.  So, we have to be patient.

Our new co-worker asks 1,000 questions, and we have 1,000 answers, but we don’t have 1,000 hours.  We have to be patient.

Patience Quotes

Cato said that “Patience is the greatest of all virtues.”

Kierkegaard said “Patience is necessary, and one cannot reap immediately where one has sown.”

There’s an old saying that “Patience doesn’t always help, but impatience never does.”

And here’s my favorite – from Lec.  I have no idea who he/she is, but it’s a good quote: “You have to have a lot of patience to learn patience.”

Patience Tests

For many of us, the skills that we need to learn most are the skills that are most tested.  And when it comes to personal interactions with people less knowledgeable on a topic than we are in customer service, people who are a little bit more anxious or upset, people who don’t quite appreciate all the different plates we have spinning at any given point in time – those types of conversations require extra patience.

Patience Positives

So when you show patience, realize you are doing something virtuous.  Realize that it might not reap you any immediate benefits, but it will help down the road.  Realize that showing impatience and interrupting others rarely leads to the right tone and a positive outcome.  And realize that you’re likely showing a lot of patience when you’re put in positions where you’re having to learn patience.

 Patience is…a virtue in customer service.

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Everybody Doesn’t – 2/25/25

Posted on February 25, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

Joey received the compliment, but he was confused.  Paula, his boss, and Joey had their monthly one-on-one meeting, and Paula noted that, although he was new, Joey was already doing a great job!  While there were learning curves on some of the organizational policies and the technology that he was using in working with his customers, his customer service skills were excellent.

Joey appreciated the positive feedback, but he was struggling to figure out what he did that was so special.  He’s not the most outgoing person in the world, not the most gregarious or chatty or social individual.  So, he asked for some specifics from Paula.

She talked about how he’s always patient with the callers on the phone.  He always responds to the emails.  If there was a next step, he always follows up with the customer later on to make sure they were satisfied.  He always touches base with a co-worker when he handed something off just to make sure the co-worker understood things and was able to follow through.  Joey always completed his projects on time, and when he anticipated a delay, he gave his team members a heads up well in advance.

Joey thanked Paula, but then he asked: I’m not sure what is so special about that. Doesn’t everybody do those things?

Paula paused, and then she responded:  Unfortunately, no.  At least not with your consistency.  You are always being patient, always responsive, always following up, always communicating with your co-workers, always managing expectations.  So, no, everybody doesn’t do those things.  At least they don’t do them all the time.

In 2025, “Delighting” the customers or “Delivering a WOW Experience” is great, but you can be special by executing those core customer service actions consistently…by doing them ALL the time.

Become better by becoming even more consistent.

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A Simple Phrase to Transform Your Customer Feedback Approach – 2/18/25

Posted on February 18, 2025 in Customer Service Tip of the Week Please leave a comment

I went to a restaurant called Big Ed’s (no relation) in Raleigh, NC recently.  It’s basically country cooking with fantastic breakfast options!  On the menu there was a quote that said:

If you enjoyed your meal, tell a friend.  If not, please tell us.

That was an excellent statement that embodies a guiding principle that a lot of organizations should focus on for customer feedback.

You want the word-of-mouth advertising, so are you asking for it from your customers?  Retention may be the most cost-effective marketing available, but a referral from an existing customer (i.e., asking them to tell a friend) is the second most cost-effective.  It costs you nothing but the great experience that you’re hopefully already delivering…and maybe a simple request from you to the customer.

Ask the customer to tell you if they have an issue.  Many customers leave businesses after a bad experience and never come back. The company may or may not know that that customer had an issue because frankly, the company doesn’t ask for feedback.  And most customers don’t offer unsolicited feedback, so most negative experiences are unknown to the company.  Sure, there is social media now, and people vent there, but it’s still a small percentage of the total customer base.

If you want to learn, you want to hear it from your customers directly.  Therefore, you have to ask for the feedback.  Never assume leaving customers are happy customers.  Never assume somebody who doesn’t complain is thrilled.  Never assume that if somebody has an issue, that they’ll tell you directly.

Ask the customer to share their great experiences with others, and ask them to share their concerns with you.

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