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Avoid These Techniques - 10/21/25


We had a Customer Service Tip of the Week recently that addressed gaining control of the conversation.  One of the key points was that the focus should be on gaining control of conversations in various circumstances, but trying to avoid making it your goal to gain control of the Read more

View Quality through the Customer’s Eyes - 10/14/25


Geri had been dealing with backups in the downstairs plumbing system of her house on and off for the past year.  The most recent company that she called in to unclog the pipes stated that they could send a camera down the pipes and tell her exactly where the Read more

Be Supportive, Not Defensive - 10/7/25


[An employee on the phone with a customer…] Who told you that you didn’t have to submit that form? … Bob?  Oh brother!  You see Bob is our “special” co-worker.  He seems to always tell customers the wrong thing to do, and we’re having to clean up after him.  Read more

Some Customers LOVE Predictability - 9/30/25


I was facilitating focus groups of businesses that utilize local government services.  The phrase that popped up multiple times was “Time Is Money!”  What these municipal customers were conveying was that their time was valuable, and delays were wasting their time.  But the conversations were not just about how Read more

Find Your Special Sauce - 9/23/25


When I watch a football game and I see a great quarterback (somebody who may be considered a “Star”), he might be an excellent runner, have a big arm, be able to diagnose the defense and get his team into the right play.  But he’s likely not great at Read more

Gain Control of the Conversation - 9/16/25


The customer’s angry or upset or they have a complaint.  They’re very chatty or very wordy or they just want to talk to somebody.  You’re on a time crunch, and the customer obviously is not. There are times when you need to gain control of the conversation.  It’s important for Read more

Complement with a Compliment - 9/9/25


We perform many tasks for our customers every day, and when we’re done with a step in the process, oftentimes we will tell the customer what’s been done.  But if we want to create more of a WOW experience, if we want to make the customer feel a little Read more

When Patience Begets Patience - 9/2/25


Jennifer, the server, walked toward the couple in the restaurant.  The customers had been seated for a minute or two, and they noticed the server was walking briskly toward their table.  Jennifer recognized the couple she was about to serve, because they had been in the previous week. Since the Read more

Address the Expectations that Were Set - 8/26/25


Before the caller ever got to Marco – the customer service representative, the customer had been working with the company for months.  They had read the marketing brochures, had a conversation with a sales rep, reviewed the new customer information on the website, and read all the information e-mailed Read more

When Technology Fails the Customer - 8/19/25


Technology is a wonderful thing…until it isn’t.  The website is down, the mobile app won’t work, the system keeps kicking them out of their account, or they received a spoofing phone call supposedly from your department. If you’ve ever been manning the phones or managing the department inbox, you know Read more

Patience is… – 3/4/25

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Patience is a…pain in the neck.  Why is it so hard to be patient?  Those of us who work in customer service know that we constantly have to show patience with our customers.  We’re ready to move to the next step or the solution because we’ve heard this issue 100 times, but the customer is still telling their story, and they waited 15 minutes on the phone to get to us, so they don’t exactly want to get rushed through their opening statement.

We’re ready to end the meeting, but our boss decides to wax eloquent about something she did in college that deals with fishing or football or physics, and we’re supposed to somehow relate this to our day-to-day job.  So, we have to be patient.

Our new co-worker asks 1,000 questions, and we have 1,000 answers, but we don’t have 1,000 hours.  We have to be patient.

Patience Quotes

Cato said that “Patience is the greatest of all virtues.”

Kierkegaard said “Patience is necessary, and one cannot reap immediately where one has sown.”

There’s an old saying that “Patience doesn’t always help, but impatience never does.”

And here’s my favorite – from Lec.  I have no idea who he/she is, but it’s a good quote: “You have to have a lot of patience to learn patience.”

Patience Tests

For many of us, the skills that we need to learn most are the skills that are most tested.  And when it comes to personal interactions with people less knowledgeable on a topic than we are in customer service, people who are a little bit more anxious or upset, people who don’t quite appreciate all the different plates we have spinning at any given point in time – those types of conversations require extra patience.

Patience Positives

So when you show patience, realize you are doing something virtuous.  Realize that it might not reap you any immediate benefits, but it will help down the road.  Realize that showing impatience and interrupting others rarely leads to the right tone and a positive outcome.  And realize that you’re likely showing a lot of patience when you’re put in positions where you’re having to learn patience.

 Patience is…a virtue in customer service.

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Everybody Doesn’t – 2/25/25

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Joey received the compliment, but he was confused.  Paula, his boss, and Joey had their monthly one-on-one meeting, and Paula noted that, although he was new, Joey was already doing a great job!  While there were learning curves on some of the organizational policies and the technology that he was using in working with his customers, his customer service skills were excellent.

Joey appreciated the positive feedback, but he was struggling to figure out what he did that was so special.  He’s not the most outgoing person in the world, not the most gregarious or chatty or social individual.  So, he asked for some specifics from Paula.

She talked about how he’s always patient with the callers on the phone.  He always responds to the emails.  If there was a next step, he always follows up with the customer later on to make sure they were satisfied.  He always touches base with a co-worker when he handed something off just to make sure the co-worker understood things and was able to follow through.  Joey always completed his projects on time, and when he anticipated a delay, he gave his team members a heads up well in advance.

Joey thanked Paula, but then he asked: I’m not sure what is so special about that. Doesn’t everybody do those things?

Paula paused, and then she responded:  Unfortunately, no.  At least not with your consistency.  You are always being patient, always responsive, always following up, always communicating with your co-workers, always managing expectations.  So, no, everybody doesn’t do those things.  At least they don’t do them all the time.

In 2025, “Delighting” the customers or “Delivering a WOW Experience” is great, but you can be special by executing those core customer service actions consistently…by doing them ALL the time.

Become better by becoming even more consistent.

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A Simple Phrase to Transform Your Customer Feedback Approach – 2/18/25

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I went to a restaurant called Big Ed’s (no relation) in Raleigh, NC recently.  It’s basically country cooking with fantastic breakfast options!  On the menu there was a quote that said:

If you enjoyed your meal, tell a friend.  If not, please tell us.

That was an excellent statement that embodies a guiding principle that a lot of organizations should focus on for customer feedback.

You want the word-of-mouth advertising, so are you asking for it from your customers?  Retention may be the most cost-effective marketing available, but a referral from an existing customer (i.e., asking them to tell a friend) is the second most cost-effective.  It costs you nothing but the great experience that you’re hopefully already delivering…and maybe a simple request from you to the customer.

Ask the customer to tell you if they have an issue.  Many customers leave businesses after a bad experience and never come back. The company may or may not know that that customer had an issue because frankly, the company doesn’t ask for feedback.  And most customers don’t offer unsolicited feedback, so most negative experiences are unknown to the company.  Sure, there is social media now, and people vent there, but it’s still a small percentage of the total customer base.

If you want to learn, you want to hear it from your customers directly.  Therefore, you have to ask for the feedback.  Never assume leaving customers are happy customers.  Never assume somebody who doesn’t complain is thrilled.  Never assume that if somebody has an issue, that they’ll tell you directly.

Ask the customer to share their great experiences with others, and ask them to share their concerns with you.

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